Heartbeat: Faking It

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I’ve got a problem. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now… he’s really good to me, makes me feel special and all but the sex just isn’t… good.

The first few times I lay there like a dead log. He was pretty disappointed so I watched some porn and learned to fake it. He thinks he’s so good at it now and that’s made it worse. His confidence is so high, he thinks he can cure all my worries and stresses through sex. It just stresses me out more though because it’s more acting and faking for me.

I love the guy, besides that everything’s awesome. I don’t know what to do. Do I keep this up? Should I straight up confront him? I can’t leave him because of this… that’s too superficial isn’t it?

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