Heartbeat Mini: The First Move

First Move

I’m a 27 year old guy, I’d say I’m average looking and moderately successful in life so far. My problem: I can’t make the first move. I date girls often enough and am moderately successful at bringing them home for “more drinks”. But we just talk, watch TV, drink, and sometimes even just sleep – but I can’t make that first move and nothing happens unless the girl initiates it. I just freeze up and maybe I get scared. I end up changing the subject when it’s quiet and awkward. Once the engine’s started though, I’m good – we have fun. Don’t take me wrong – I’m not a ‘player’ (well obviously).

First Move

OK she’s in… now what?

Any tips or advice on how to make the first move? Or any killer First Moves that work for you?


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First Move